Skip to content. I am a twenty-year-old male and consider myself to be heterosexual. The problem is, I have a very strong desire for anal pleasure. When I was fifteen, I discovered that inserting a finger or two into my anus while masturbating really intensifies my orgasms and I have been enjoying this ever since.
How do I give my guy anal pleasure?
The 5 Rules of Anal Play for Straight Men
Exclusive to males of the species, the noble yet misunderstood prostate gland is a mischievous lump of human tissue that can lead every male, straight or gay, down a yellow-brick road, past the pearly gates, and into a garden of earthly delights. Online sources claim that the prostate gland is either walnut-sized or chestnut-sized—but never both. I will assume that the average male prostate gland is somewhere between the size of a chestnut and walnut. In essence, all male orgasms start with the prostate.
Fingering The Male G-Spot: 16 Things You Need To Know About Prostate Massage
The prostate gland is in the middle of the pelvis and produces part of the fluid called seminal fluid that comes out when a man ejaculates. You can't touch the prostate directly, but it is possible to stimulate it indirectly, internally via anal stimulation and externally by applying pressure on the perineum. Not all people with prostates enjoy having it stimulated. Like the g-spot , or any other part of the body, some people will find stimulation arousing , some will find it boring, some may find it painful. But for many, the prostate is a source of deep sexual pleasure.
Anal sex is not everyone's cup of tea. The mystery and taboo that surrounds it might make it seem like the big thing everyone wants to try, but the bottom line is that some people like it and some people don't. So how can you tell if you do or you don't without doing, at least once? It's not like kissing, an activity that we explore through experimentation with others who we may not know or even particularly like.